We grew apart, we didn't fall apart, and it wasn't a choice. Only the conclusions around the divorce was a choice. I even see smoking or drinking as more of a choice in leading to the ultimate separation; death. He wasn't happy in our marriage, was that his choice to not be happy? I tried … Continue reading Divorce Isn’t a Failure…When We Grow!
When the divorce was obvious, I just wanted to stay friends. I wanted a friend in him, not only have conversations about selling the house, excel files about costs, and trying to solve problems. The answer I got was that that wasn't possible; "No one can be friends after a divorce!" I was shocked! Why not? What … Continue reading Death or Divorce – What’s the Difference?
Connecting means finding homeostasis on the vibrational level through connecting with oneself, other(s), and it's a big (huge) part of healing. It's about allowing to get connected or disconnected, when you need to, on your cellular level as well as on your vibrational. Sometimes you have to disconnect first, then you can re-connect, or connect … Continue reading Disconnect to Get Connected in A New Form!
My body screamed at me, "Mistake! Mistake! Mistake!" but it was too late. In 8 seconds I had already fallen more than 300 meters and in just 50 more seconds would collide with the earth 12,000 feet below me at 200 kilometers an hour. My life was over. I would never hold her again. I … Continue reading Fear is Old Technology
The number of atoms in the universe is constant, and they are constantly 're-used' by all life in a sophisticated recycling system. Did you know that the number of particles in us is larger than the number of known particles in the universe! There is an infinite number of connecting possibilities in us, more than in the … Continue reading We Are Connected in Vibes!
Most diseases are based on oxidation (inflammation), but why is oxidation sometimes kicking in and other times it doesn't? What is it that we can’t see with our microscopes that evidently is happening simultaneously? Why is a bacteria we have in us all the time, suddenly capable of killing us? Here is where the ‘connectedness’ … Continue reading Illness Is Not a Coincidence – Nor Is Curing It!
Every time we breath in, we have 10 to the power of 22 new atoms coming into the body. That’s 10000000000000000000000 atoms! The electrons have a charge or a force or an energy. Call it what you want. They connect to other particles, and depending on 'some thing(s)', in time and space, we have a … Continue reading Synchronicity Is Happening All the Time
Have you ever reflected upon what the ‘all is connected’ really means? To understand connectedness, I see our amazing world in us and outside us, with the kind of scientific thinking I have been taught (cause it works for me, no other reason) I have to think chemistry and energy, particles and vibrations. In this … Continue reading What Does Being ‘Connected’ Really Mean?
One of the worst toxins, that can harm us as no other, and is so healing when we get rid off, is the famous emotion of Guilt. With guilt comes shame and blame. If we can get rid of those we heal, quickly and deeply. Only then we have a choice to change, and a … Continue reading Guilt with shame and blame – the root of all the suffering?
When we get hooked on reaching that magic number, we forget why we do it. Here is when we always lose that battle, over and over again, often with consequences of disappointment and unhappiness. The measurements and judgments of what is the 'right' number is most likely inherited, not coming from us. We loose the incentive, … Continue reading Fill Your ‘Magic’ Numbers with Meaning