It is crucial for a healthy living to be connected to our surrounding. There is no life force, Prana, in an isolation on any level, cellular nor vibrational. Sometimes we have to disconnect from a form to allow the change! But some hang on to what should have been disconnected long ago, and some tend to disconnect when it isn’t time for it yet, with the result that they can’t disconnect, even if they push it away.
If you are unhappy in a relationship, in a house, at a job, with your mum, anything that drains you on energy, you have to find a way to disconnect to be healthy; partly or fully. If you can’t change it, you have to love it. The reasons can be very valid, as if you can’t find a new job, or an affordable house, or don’t want to separate for the kids sake, what ever keeps you from changing what is, you have to love it. Go back and find what you loved about it in the beginning. What you can’t do if you want to stay healthy and send healthy vibes around you, is to continue to be miserable. There is only two ways. You either change it, or you love it!